There are many ways you can really WOW a man! Not every man is the same though, so in order to master his sexual realm, it's important to pay attention to learn him. How does he responds to things he really likes; does he groans, grab the sheets, vocally say he likes it etc.? You can try many tips out but what really works for him?
Because I know the specifics doesn't apply to everyone, I wanted to give tips that could potentially apply to the mass majority of men. A couple things are for certain, a man loves a woman with confidence and a passion that he can feel. These tips are really good for my single people and my people in relationships. So you're either going to be snatching his soul and making him fall in love or you're going to be spicing things up in the bedroom.
5. Initiate Sex & Become The Dominate
I know that a lot of women like to wait for their partner to initiate. In our eyes, this is how we know he is into us. How we know they're still turned on by us. We know they want us because they can't help themselves and we wait for the them to initiate. We sometimes don't consider that, they may want the very thing we want. Their partner to take control because their partner wants them soooooo bad.
A really good way to WOW him and to spice things up is to be the Dominant. And when I say be the dominant, I mean be the aggressor, take control. Take the passion and bring it to the bedroom. Tell him what you want and how the things are going to go down. Don't just dream of the fantasy, live the fantasy. This is your time to show up and wow him and completely blow his mind. It is time for you to be the dominant and make him the submissive.
Let him know, 'look, I want this and that, and you're gonna do it'. Tell him exactly what you want and what you want him to do. This is a great tip whether you're in a relationship or single! Just make sure you have either boundaries set in place or you're asking for consent before completely dominating.
Communication with your partner about sex is super important. You want to make sure you're not overly aggressive (Unless that's what they like). You don't want to scare them, but I'm pretty sure being dominate the right way will not.
It's about the passion, it's about being in control, and it's about letting them know exactly what you want and how you want it.
4. Bring The Confidence
I know that confidence can be a constant thing that all of us work on, as we go on throughout life. And that is totally normal, but there is no better time, like bedroom time to show off that confidence.
Show off that you are confident with your body, confident in your skills, confident in your looks, and confident in how you sound. You want to come off as confident as possible because I'm telling you, men eat it up! They love a woman that is feeling herself and that feels like she looks good.
It's important to warm yourself up prior to spending bedroom time with your partner if your not feeling your most confident self. Start off by telling yourself in the mirror how beautiful and sexy you are. Invest in how you look and what you wear to make YOURSELF mor conformable and confident. Although, the fact you got him in the bedroom, is definitely confirmation he thinks you look good. He thinks you're attractive. But its most important you feel that way about yourself. You can get really wrapped up in your own negative thoughts and feelings and can ruin the moment with your partner.
I do have a dick appointment checklist on my channel, um, that kind of goes literally through, like, how you, what you should do right before your dick appointment. And obviously this could be a relationship that we're talking about, so it necessarily doesn't have to be about a dick appointment, but it's, it's a pretty good general, um, way to get yourself prepared for sex so you can be nice and confident and feel, you know, really secure in yourself and getting your bag, okay?
If you're not confident in your skills, it''ll be hard to be dominant and to take control. So it's super, super, super important to come with the confidence.
3. Blow His Mind During Oral Sex!
Showing him this level of intimacy if you truly feel comfortable. But giving your partner amazing dome really will wow him! I have a video on my channel talking about some tips on how to improve your head game. I also have a course on my website that further goes into detail about how to blow your partners mind.
2. Tease To Get Your Way
Some people may not like the tease. So, understand your partner, know your partner.
You might want to leave this tip out if they really do not like to be teased. But, I find that teasing can be very sexy, as long as it's not long and drawn out. Just a little bit of teasing, maybe give him a little bit of head and be like, I want you to do this, and make sure he agrees to give you exactly what you asked for before continuing.
You want to get him to a place where you're making him feel good. You may be giving him head, or you're riding him, or you're taking control, you're doing these things, and you just stop. And you give him a command. You tell him to do something. This is a way that one, you can get what you want, and two, it is going to drive him crazy.
1. Dirty Talk
Let him know what you want and how you want it. Tell him that it's his. Tell him how good it is, how good he taste, and how good you taste.
Talk dirty. It is all this stuff combined, it's gonna be like, wow, wait, she is a FREAK. It's either going to wow him and get him completely whipped. Or if you guys are already in a relationship, he gonna be like, BABY! Where is this all coming from? He is going to want more and it's going to make your relationship more spicy.
Conclusion
It's going to make him want sex with you more. But this is the thing, it takes two. So if you are so in a relationship, do your due diligence. And be the person to initiate, be the person to, you know, spice things up, but we also look for our partners to do the same. So if your partner is always initiating, these are really good tips for you. Or if you're trying to whip him, you know, get him wrapped around your finger, get them calling for more, these are really good tips for you. I'm telling you right now, he's going to love it.
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