Ever give a guy oral sex and he doesn’t seem that into it and/or he stops you? Do you find yourself wondering how you can do a better job at pleasing your man? Giving him an amazing mind blowing blow job will do the trick!
Its all about knowing your partner intimately by simply asking questions or paying attention to their reactions to sexual acts. Did they moan in pleasure, or grip the sheets? Or did they jump and move or say ‘Ow’! Are they even a fan of oral sex? (Some people do not to receive it). Once you gain knowledhe of what your partner likes and dislikes, next it time to work on attitude and technique.
One of the best parts of oral sex is the passion. Just imagine your partner doing something for you that you wanted them to do with no enthusiasm. It’s just seem like they don’t want to do it. You’re probably not going to get the same enjoyment out of it that you would have gotten if they seemed equally into it. Same goes for oral. You want them to feel and see that your into it. So go ahead and check out your partner while your doing your thing! That’s a good way to confirm what he does or doesn’t like.
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Tips To Improve Giving Oral Sex
1. Make noises to let him know your into it!
Making moaning, slurping, and spitting sounds can be a huge turn on. *see video for examples*. While making your sounds and all the other extras, you still want to be consistently giving oral. If you need a little practice, try putting your freshly clean finger(s) in your and suck! Then try moaning while your doing it. See? Easy! When your spitting, try to add a little sexy sound affect. (Make sure he likes it and is not grossed out by the sound of spit). When making the sound, avoid the sound of it coming from the back of your throat (Now that may ruin the mood).
2. Lots of spit
Your mouth is now the focal point of the sexual act. That same warm tight wet feeling that he would get from your vagina or anus, you want to create the same amazing experience with your mouth during oral sex. Don‘t be afraid to get messy with it! Spit during sex isn’t viewed the same way it’s viewed outside of the bedroom. The more, the better! He may or may not want to actually see the spit (a lot of men do so check and see), but you still need all of it. If you have dry mouth or just having trouble getting more saliva, a good tip would be “deep throat“ (bring the penis all the way to the back of your mouth) the penis as much as you can without making yourself throw up. *Please do not throw up!*
3. Use hands
Some may be amazed when you don’t use your hands for periods of time but if your technique is good enough, he will not even realize how much your using them. This is an opportunity for you to rest your mouth and get a little extra freaky with your bodily fluids and sexy voice. For him it’ll seem fun and sexy, while your able to take a breather. You can use one hand to massage the penis and the other the massage their testicles “balls”. It’s important to make sure they are ok with you massaging or stimulating other areas of their body. Your partner may be in to anal play or they may be extremely uncomfortable with any stimulation near their anus. But once you know, you can use all these things in your favor!
4. Eye contact
Giving eye contact is a form of communication. It lets the person you are looking at or connecting with know that your engaged and interested. While eye contact can be considered sexy, it can also be considered an intense thing or can be kind of creepy. One ways to see if their into it is by trying. Try it out by looking up at them while you do your thing and make eye contact. Once you‘ve locked eyes, release out a moan of satisfaction and break contact to continue doing your thing. If he tells you to look at him again, or his reaction was intense, he liked it! If he was avoiding looking down at you, he may not like eye contact during oral.
5. Don’t forget about the Testicles! “Balls”
I stated before, it’s important to know what’s ok and not ok with your partner. While testicle stimulation is popular, ask your partner if they are ok with it first. If so, massaging their testicles or “tea bagging” (when you put their testicles in your mouth) will make them go crazy. Making it part of your oral sex routine will give them another area of satisfaction and you another chance to rest your mouth, especially if your tea bagging. But you can massage their testicles with one hand while you use the other to help you give oral.
These five tips combined will make for mind blowing orgasmic oral sex! Remember to talk to your partner about what’s ok and what’s not ok and establish boundries. Once established, have fun and get freaky!
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Please comment below if you have a tip or trick that I didn't mention!
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