Jun 17, 20226 min read

Pre-Dick Appointment Checklist

Updated: Jul 23

Getting ready for a late night rendezvous? The process of getting fresh and sexy for this date is not necessarily the same for a regular date. So what's the difference you ask? Well lets just say doing all the extra steps for looking fabulous is not necessary. Your pleasure is the main focus. While looking and feeling pretty can be an important component to having bedroom confidence, I advise for this special occasion, we go as "natural" as possible. Let me further explain.

Leave The Glam At Home

There is no need to be "dolled up" or to be doing the most because your main priority is pleasure. Your focus should be on your body and your hygiene, so when you arrive, you will be feeling, looking and smelling amazing. Wearing make-up during this can cause self-conscious behavior when interacting with your late night date. You may find yourself avoiding any action that may cause you to rub your makeup on their clothing or their bedroom linen. Avoiding makeup will help you be more laid back and at ease which will help you avoid embarrassment.

Guidelines To Consider Before A Dick Appointment

There are three main things you should focus on for your appointment.

● Hygiene

● Beauty

● Sexy

Focusing solely on these three things will help your confidence level. Confidence is key. Having that confidence will ensure you have a sexy and pleasurable night.

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Hygiene

Shower
Body Hair Maintenance
Moisturizer
Nails & Toes
Fragrance

Shower

While this is an obvious to do before your late night date, I wanted to note to not skip an inch of your body. This is an opportunity for your body to be explored and you asking for the pleasure you desire whether that's getting your toes sucked or the back of your neck licked. Being confident in your body hygiene is the most important part of this date because being self conscious or hygienically unprepared can ruin your sexy evening. Below, I have some personal faves to use in the shower! I only use unscented products because I have sensitive skin.

Great Feminine Products

1. Dr. Bronners Pure Castile Unscented Soap

So, I actually really like the Peppermint Dr. Bronners! It is naturally scented so I feel comfortable using it and haven't experienced any skin irritations. I personally like to use it "down there" because me such a fresh clean feeling.

2. Honey Pot Unscented Sensitive Soap

I love The Honey Pot Company products! I've tried their hygiene wipes and their pads! But their wash is my favorite! I solely only use it for her.

Body Hair Maintenance

There is no right or wrong answer here. It's all about preference. You don't have to be completely hairless to have a good time. Communicate with your partner and ask questions to unlock what they are comfortable with. For example, if you are someone that prefers not to go completely hairless and just prefers a trim. Don't assume you have to go completely hairless because society told you that partners of a woman like it that way. There are many partners that don't have any problem with body hair and will still preform oral sex.

Great Body Hair Removal Option

Nair Bikini Cream

I actually have a review on YouTube about the Nair Bikini cream. Check it out here.

Moisturize

Make your body silky and smooth by using your favorite moisturizer. Using it from head to toe, it will leave your body smooth and sometimes shiny. If your lotion doesn't do this and you want to add some shine to your body, use body oil. Since I have sensitive skin, I actually use body oil in my skin regimen on the daily. I add my moisturizer and top it with my favorite moisturizing oil. If you want more of an immediate shine when you and your partner are getting hot and heavy, take the oil with you. You can add on to the sex ambiance by allowing them to apply the body oil where they would like.

My Oil Recommendations

NOW Solutions Almond Oil

Almond Oil is my personal fave to add to my skin on the daily! It leaves my skin feeling soft and moisturized. Applying this to your skin will leave you soft and silky so you don't have to worry about your skin looking dry for your date.

Johnson's Baby Oil Mineral Oil Enriched with Shea & Cocoa Butter

Baby Oil is a favorite in the the bedroom. It gives your body the ultimate shine! It does have fragrance so be careful if you have sensitive skin. But taking this with you or using it right out of the shower while your body is still damp, will give you the ultimate moisture and shine.

Nails & Toes

They don't have to be straight out of the salon fresh. But people pay attention to nails and toes. I just recommend you don't go with chipped polish! Take the extra five minutes if needed to trim toenails and take off chipped polish. You never know when your toes will find themselves in someone's mouth.

Fragrance

Smelling sexy is all a part of the game. Smell is one of our senses and can definitely start or end a good time. I recommend applying fragrances 20 minutes before you see your date. This allows it to settle down and not be so obvious. Although it will obviously be a fragrance, the more it settles on your body, the more natural it will smell on you. Also, if applied right before your date, and they immediately kiss you in the area where the fragrance was put, they will taste it. And perfume does NOT taste good.

Beauty

- Hair Grooming (Simple & Out The Way)

- Face Card

Hair Grooming

I think most of us can agree that having our hair laid makes us feel like the baddies that we truly are. Just be cautious on what hairstyle you wear or at least how you'll protect it. When in doubt, just lay them baby hairs! If you don't rock the baby hairs, put your hair in your favorite messy style on your relaxing day. Trust me, leave the fancy styles for a day time date.

Face Card

Its up to you what you ultimately do to have the confidence you need to feel like a BADDIE. If that means putting on a full face of makeup, so be it! I will say though to reconsider if you can. Since your nights focus is on pleasure and intimacy, that means your most likely going to be on your back or your stomach. To avoid a copy print of your face on pillow cases and bed sheets, I recommend not wearing makeup. If you still want to elevate your look, focus on three things. Brows, eyes, and lips. (Refer to checklist.)

Sexy

- Confidence/ Attitude

- Lingerie/ Outfit

Confidence/ Attitude

This night will not be enjoyable if you aren't feeling confident and at your best. Although I provided a list of recommendations, do what's best for you. Do what makes you feel the sexiest and most confident. Wear what makes you feel the sexiest.

Lingerie/ Outfit

Lingerie is not always the answer. It's not always what makes us feel sexy or what our partner considers sexy. It's up to you first and foremost. If the lingerie is what gets you in your bad girl bag, go for it! If it's a t-shirt and some boy shorts, do that! Whatever gets you in that mode of being sexy, wear it!

Ultimately, You have to feel confident to truly have a good time. Talk to your partner and get an idea of what they like and take those things into consideration. AND HAVE FUN getting ready! Play some music, grab you a glass of wine, and have fun!

Here are some cute lingerie outfit ideas from Amazon! Video descriptions include links!!